Sunday, August 7, 2011
I want this creepy woman at work to go away and leave me alone?
recently i've had a situation at work where i let someone joke around with me a little, then after a while it became really aggravating and distracting. it went on for several months, then i had a dream where the guy himself told me "just don't say anything", so, i started completely ignoring him, and would only be cool with him when it applied to the job or serious matters it applied to the job, or i would creatively make up an "important question" about the job, and it's worked out pretty well...even though he tries a little, it doesn't get under my skin. she might be trying to wreck you out of envy over your skills and/or looks, or she might be a lunatic that needs to be in an asylum or something, so just be very careful.. i used this metaphor that helped me - the hornets stay calm as long as i don't shake the nest. i think it's from shakespeare but i'm not exactly sure where i got it. maybe try respecting her for qualities that she has that you can't obtain or don't have, because she might be hunting for attention. if you absolutely can't stand her then get the heck out of there and leave the town you live in for another job (if you have to). life is short, and sometimes drastic measures have to be taken in order to secure your happiness, and someone like this can ruin the outcome of a job just by causing more tension than you need. maybe she was abused as a child, or neglected, so keeping compassionate views helps tremendously. i work at mcdonalds, with ex crack dealers and ex cocaine heads, and weedheads and pillheads and monsters... compassion and empathy keep me from getting angry and leaving the job because of the nonsense i have to put up with on a daily basis. it's chaos, and anyone can say and act however they want where i work, and it use to burn me inside and make me want throw everything away and walk out. i just became as ghost as possible. anyways, compassion helps from getting angry now ... goodluck.
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