Parents I need your help; what to do?

Your boyfriend and you deserve time together yes.but he has to give you time to adjust to the idea of separation frop your child only on occasions.your child is just that.a child.so she has to do what mommy says.now before you go and make these tooth pulling changes.sit down with your boyfriend and ask him if he is a fling or is he here for the distance.tell him your not trying to pressure him but there is no need to do all these things and make changes that will at first upset your daughter if he is kust her to hit it a little while and move on.(no disrespect intended). If he is a man he will stick it out.if not better to find out early.but if he stays start getting a little more syern with your child.time outs.no toys,no cartoons for 10 minutes for her mischievious behavior.she is a child they act up.thats normal.but how far they go is up to the parent.hire a baby sitter only on occasions so you two can have time together.seperate your child from your sleeping arrangement slowly leaving time for an adult sleeping arrangement.i am mentioning these things because if you like this guy and he is willing to try thus saying he is willing to be this childs father.you have to show him some changes that only you can make.show him your child is important to you but he is important enough to make adjustments for.now if small progressive steps are not good enough for your boyfriend.then......it is what it is.rip the bandaid.hope i helped.bye